It's your wedding do it your way! If you struggle with this, check out the Bridal Breakdown podcast.
Add an additional 5k to your budget for random things that you didn't plan for.
Something will go wrong, but it will still be the best day ever! Don't sweat the small stuff. This is why you have a planner/coordinator.
Do a first look, slow down and enjoy, look around at everyone during dinner and soak it in, EAT dinner.
Elope (when we had already put down thousands in deposits.)
You don't need a QR code for money dances. (We made thousands more with the QR code.)
The main piece of advice that was shared repeatedly is this: Relax, it is just a day. At the end, the most important thing is that you are married to your person. Be present and enjoy the moment and your loved ones.